Common Traits Of Narcissists

Short list of the traits narcissistic women share.

I don’t really like the label “Narcissist” because I think too many people throw it.

A lot of women throwing the label of narcissists around when they themselves are narcissists and so I think it’s better to break it down into the traits instead of throwing just a label around.

I would put narcissistic woman into three groups, the shy one, the extroverted and on that’s like a little bit in between those two.

The shy one will harbor hate and resentment and you can see it and sense it.

The extroverted one is openly hateful, diminishing you, yelling at you

The middle one is kind of like in between you don’t see her being extremely extroverted or shy.

Here are the common traits that narcissists have:

– Circular conversations when you try to improve the relationship. They will hold have circular conversations that don’t go anywhere, they’re crazy-making conversations and don’t lead to a resolution.

– They want you obedient like a dog, do anything they say, if you don’t do something she’ll throw fits and tantrums.

– Gaslighting you and lie to you. They will tell you “that’s not what I said”, no “that’s not what they’ve done”. They trying to be inherently right about not having said something or having having done something that they actually done or said. Can go as far as accusing you of having something done that you haven’t done. Trying to tell you that you’ve done something you haven’t dine.

– Outbursts when you don’t give them attention. If you don’t give them attention something they can completely burst out and become outraged.

– Fake crying. It’s very loud where they try to garner sympathy and pity from other people. It’s not that she’s actually sad and crying over something but it’s a very loud fake crying that is meant to draw the attention of other people almost like you did something really bad.

– They may break your property or even keep it. Often times making it very difficult for you to actually get back your property and having to go through extreme lengths to get it back

– When the relationship ends or in general they have people on short dial that they can play victim to who might even escalate the situation further.

– Some will weaponize sex and withhold it

– They show they are a little too comfortable around guys showing they have no loyalty

– Triangle you, so they will tell other people how bad you are as a person so other people feel uncomfortable around you and do the same towards you where they say “he did that” and now you also feel uncomfortable around those people.

– When you try to leave the relationship they try to turn everyone close to you against you so you have no support network.

– Many of them try to isolate you from other people

– When the relationship ends they copy everything about you, especially the good traits, your mannerism, how you conduct conduct yourself towards other people, maybe even what you’re interested in, and present that towards the world as a mask and dump everything that they are and did onto you. Trying to shame you or put the shame about what they’ve done onto you and essentially try to convince you that you are, what they are.

– Throwing false allegations at you and making up complete lies that can have bad consequences for you

– Many will guilt you all the time over everything. You’ll be also blamed or made feel guilty over leaving a bad relationship.

– They will attack you whenever you take a moment to relax. They’ll come and attack you when you’re relaxed so that you never get to relax and you’re almost always stressed and maybe in like some PTSD or compulsive PTSD state where you feel under constant attack all the time

– One subtle thing that they might do is they always walk ahead of you always trying to dictate the path that you go instead of like walking next to you or walking behind you

– They like to sabotage every time you have something to celebrate or something you have something to be happy and ruin it. (maybe because everything has to revolve around them all the time)

– Starting fights just before you have some meeting or something of importance

I think nowadays a lot of women end up on the narcissistic side because they have been influenced by feminists and the whole feminists movement brought where it always has to be about them and how they are a “victim” to something (false victim). The feminists pushed the whole idea of independence and going against men (their illusionary oppressor) to the point women think now it’s always about them, “me me me, always me and my happiness and no one else matters”.