Some things you can learn through narcissists
There’s a lot that you can learn from being with a narcissist I just put some things together but I’m sure there’s a lot more that you can learn from being with one.
– You can learn keeping the attention or your focus on yourself more, on your body and on yourself instead of the outside. there’s a reason why you focus is not with yourself but on the outside.
– You can learn to be more with your thoughts and feelings.
– You can learn to trust your intuition more because your intuition already told you things about who you with
– You can learn self-acceptance. When a narcissist shames you on everything, that everything about you is bad, then you can learn how you can now learn to self accept and actually accept those parts that you were deemed bad over
– You can learn more about your self-worth because you probably believe that you’re not worthy of more
– You can learn more about what you’re worthy of and what you deserve. For example whether or not you’re worthy of only bad relationship.
– You can learn to value your opinion more
– You can learn to have boundaries, to have things that you’re not okay
– You can learn to say no instead of always yes yes yes you
– You can learn about your own driving factors that got you in the relationship or draws you even back in the relationship.
– You can learn more about your beliefs that you hold that causes you to pedestalize someone and make you think that there’s only person for you among 8 billion people
– You can learn to give yourself what others won’t (e.g. kind words, appreciation etc)
– You can learn to give yourself better or kinder self-talk towards yourself, one that’s not all bullying and punishing yourself
– You can value also more of your time especially when a narcissist tries to take as much time as they can from you and tries to reel you back into the relationship as oft times as possible until like all your years are gone, taking a look at how others progress while you stay in the same kind of relationship will make that even more evident
– You learn more about the world in general. It’s going to be easier for you to actually see through the curtains and how the world operates.
– You can learn to trust your eyes and ears more. If someone says something but then afterwards denying it like “that’s not what I said” or “that’s not what I did” and it’s exactly what they said and what they did.
These are just some things that you can learn but there can be a lot more.
